When should I message a client who missed a check-in?

Early: a day after the check-in was due, or after about a week of silence. Early reads as noticing; a month later reads as a bill.

What if they miss two in a row?

Call or message them personally instead of sending another template. Clients who had a bad week often feel ashamed to check in.

How does Fenlio know who has gone quiet?

It counts the days since each active client last sent a message or note, from your own records. The Who's going quiet play writes a nudge for each, and every nudge waits for your press.

Templates

Missed check-in message template for coaches

A missed check-in message is the short note a coach sends when a client goes quiet.

Have Fen write yours Or copy the outline

What goes in it

Send it after one missed check-in or about a week of silence. Open with their name and one detail only they would recognise, take the pressure off, ask one question about how they are, and offer one very small way back. Keep it under 60 words and never count the days.

Under 60 words in total. Phone sized.

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Opening
Their first name and one specific detail from their file (a goal, a recent win, something they mentioned), so it could only be for them.
2
No pressure
One line that takes the pressure off, assuming life got busy.
3
One question
One question about how they are, not about their training or their numbers.
4
Tiny next step
One very small way back with a short time frame, such as a one-line reply or one short walk. Not the full plan.

When to send it

A day after a check-in was due and nothing arrived.
After about a week without a message from an active client.
When a client went quiet after a hard week, a trip or an illness.

Common mistakes

Counting days or missed sessions.
Warning about lost progress or adding urgency.
Timing an upsell or a renewal reminder with the nudge.
Sending a second automatic nudge instead of calling after two misses in a row.

Why it works

Reach out after one missed check-in or about a week of silence, not a month. Early, a nudge feels like someone noticing; late, the same words feel like a bill.
Coachway, Client re-engagement messages
A short manual nudge a day after a check-in is due works; two misses in a row call for a call from the coach, because clients who had a bad week often feel ashamed to check in.
HubFit, The ultimate guide to online coaching check-ins
Automate the routine, personalize the important: a nudge needs the client's name and one detail from their own file, or it reads as a broadcast.
MyPTHub, Coaching clients online without losing accountability
Autonomy support points the same way as the practitioners: lower the cost of coming back instead of adding pressure.
Ng et al. 2012, Self-determination theory applied to health contexts (meta-analysis)

Copy the outline

Paste it into any document.

MISSED CHECK-IN MESSAGE

Opening
[Their first name and one specific detail from their file (a goal, a recent win, something they mentioned), so it could only be for them.]

No pressure
[One line that takes the pressure off, assuming life got busy.]

One question
[One question about how they are, not about their training or their numbers.]

Tiny next step
[One very small way back with a short time frame, such as a one-line reply or one short walk. Not the full plan.]

Let Fen write it

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Bring the client's record
Their intake, check-ins and messages, pasted, dropped or imported into that client's record.
2
It can't make up a number
Every weight, date and figure Fen writes is checked against the client's own words, and a load or macro target is computed from your rules. One with no source is flagged, never guessed.
3
You decide what goes out
At default settings nothing reaches a client until you press. Email replies go out from your own Gmail when you press Approve and send.

Questions

When should I message a client who missed a check-in?: Early: a day after the check-in was due, or after about a week of silence. Early reads as noticing; a month later reads as a bill.
What if they miss two in a row?: Call or message them personally instead of sending another template. Clients who had a bad week often feel ashamed to check in.
How does Fenlio know who has gone quiet?: It counts the days since each active client last sent a message or note, from your own records. The Who's going quiet play writes a nudge for each, and every nudge waits for your press.